Our lesson at church was on forgiveness. We talked about the peace that comes when one is able to forgive after carrying such a burden around. Sickness, stress and heartache are some of the results of holding a grudge.
Joseph Smith said, 'Father, forgive me my trespasses as I forgive those who trespass against me. Bear and forbear one another, for so the Lord does with us. Seek to help save souls, not to destoy them. Nothing is calculated to lead people to forsake sin as to take them by the hand, and watch over them with tenderness.'
One story was told about my friend, Shirlene's, eldest daughter, Jennifer, who was quite rebellious in her teen years causing her parents lots of turmoil. They clashed on many subjects, especially when she pierced each ear in six places. Many a day fights and disagreements were the norm in this home as they tried to get along.
One day while passing her daughter on the stairway at home, Jennifer said, "Mom, whenever you look at me, your face shows disgust." This took Shirlene by surprise, not realizing her disappointment in Jennifer's behavior had been perceived this way. Instantly her heart and attitude turned to complete unconditional love. This change of heart made all the difference in Jennifer's life and their relationship. Forgiveness was reached on both sides and together progress was made for the better.
Today Jennifer is one terrific mom guiding the way for her own children to make wise choices. Mom and daughter are the best of friends working together as they meet life's challenges. May we all step outside ourselves, to view how we treat others and reach out to those that need an extra dose of love, support and forgiveness.
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